What Genuine Friendship Means?


Hello beautiful people. I hope you're all doing good. Today I am going talk about what genuine or true friendship means and what are the 4 signs of genuine friendship. Many of us are not able to understand who is our real friend and who is just pretending to be one. So, I'll share my views on who really is our true friend.

What Genuine Friendship Means!

A friend is a person whom we trust, whom we love or like, the person who has our back, the person who is with us at our good and bad times even though he or she is not our family member. A true friend understands us and makes us feel loved.

One of the most beautiful qualities of true friendship is to understand and to be understood.   - Lucius Annaeus Seneca 

As the quote says understanding is essential in true friendship,  as many of our fights with friends end up saying ” Why don't you understand?” so, being understood and understand is important. Being with a friend is something that is so peaceful and beautiful, as we enjoy their company and feel free. But at the same time, we don't know who is our real friend and who is just pretending to be one.

4 Signs Of a Genuine Friend:

#1. Tell them bad news, and they'll listen.

What I think is that a real friend is none who listens when you tell them some bad news. They will not blame you for what bad has happened to you or they'll not talk derail the topic by telling about what had worst had happened to them a few months ago or years ago they will just listen. A true friend listens because sorrow shared is half sorrow.

#2.  Tell them the good news and, they'll help you celebrate it.

As I told a good friend listen. You say him/her good news he or she will not start derailing the topic by telling about what good had happened to them years ago or start comparing your success with the things they had succeeded. Because when you tell someone a piece of good news, you expect them to be happy as joy shared is the double joy. I'll suggest you to stay away from that person. Be with the one who helps you in celebrating your success and in my opinion,  this is the best way to check who is your genuine friend.

#3. Somebody who dares to tell you what shit you are

A true friend is somebody who has the guts to tell you what shit you are not the one who just prays you all the time. A real friend is one who accepts you like the way you are and still loves you because that's the real friendship isn't it. 

#4. He corrects you when you are wrong.

A real friend is not the one who always pumps you up even when you are doing something wrong. If he does so then he just doesn't care about you, he just cares about the friendship. A real friend is the one who corrects you when you are wrong,  even if everyone around you says you are right because he cares for you, not friendship. He knows either friendship will stay or it will not but what really matters is your wellbeing for him.

These were my listed signs which I think, are the qualities of a genuine friend. As they will help you, feel happy in your happiness and feels sad in your sadness. He is the one who corrects you when you are wrong and motivates you when you are right. So choose friends wisely and recognize who really care for you, not the ones who care only about friendship. 

I hope this blog may have helped you. If you have found my blog helpful or if you have anything to ask just leave your questions and queries in the comment section. Be happy and have a lovely day ahead.

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